The Gift of Wintering

I recall reading the book "Wintering" by Katherine May. The bright orange cover and the word itself drew me as soon as it crossed the circulation desk. At the time the book crossed the desk, winter had not yet arrived despite it being December. I knew the icy sidewalks, biting winds, and less sunlight would arrive soon enough, but as I entered the new year, I wanted to make an effort to feel differently about the season.

Unpacking the season of winter and its impact on me drove me to place the book on hold. When it came time for me to take the book home, I eagerly awaited learning about wintering.

May defines "wintering" as "those moments when you fall through the cracks and are unable to get a foothold back in everyday life."

May continues saying

"Whatever the cause, it’s a lonely and painful time, but it’s also the experience of change happening. I think we need to learn to accept and even welcome our winters because they’re a crucial part of our humanity. Wintering is how wisdom is made, and every time we winter, we grow in resilience and compassion, and we deepen our capacity for joy."

Her words gave me pause, causing me to wonder if I had ever given myself the gift of wintering.

It's been some years since I returned the bright orange-covered book with the intriguing word Wintering upon it. Yet as I move forward into the new year and deeper into the season, I can see the lessons from Katherine May in my work and life.